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cobie February 7, 2026 at 7:16:16 PM

you know what, fuck it my bad anon, im sure you had the best of intention, i was just messed up from my own life and stuff i fixed that thing for you completely when i had a second, and i fully appreciate you

Replied on: February 7, 2026 at 7:25:11 PM

don't write again (you can email, i don't mind ^-^), ill just assume you accept my apology or hate me forever, which either is understandable, have a good day

Anonymous February 7, 2026 at 12:02:15 PM

back again, im sorry but that wasnt meant to be passive aggressive? its called constructive criticism? maybe the end came off as rude and im sincerely sorry for that, but calling criticism "passive aggressive" will just give a bad taste in people's mouths. thats all, thank you smile

Replied on: February 7, 2026 at 12:49:19 PM

you don’t have to be rude when giving constructive criticism, you could be like ‘hey I noticed this, was this on purpose? people might need xyz because of this, so it’s important!’ you just sounded like you were explaining disability to someone who has one is all, and you still sound passive aggressive to me

Anonymous February 7, 2026 at 6:34:22 AM

hello!! your website is so cool but i dont think you should have the text highlight style be strikethrough? some people (me) use text selection for accessibility reasons, like when you use your finger while reading a book! thats really all, you can ignore this if you want, but the highlight feature is called a highlight for a reason

Replied on: February 7, 2026 at 6:50:45 AM

passive aggressive, i didn't even know it was at strikethrough but thanks anyway, ill fix it

akirun February 7, 2026 at 4:51:28 AM
Do you have a website?: Currently developing my own site :)

Hi!!! I stumbled upon this site by chance just now and it's so beautiful here.. I love it! Will have to dig deeper sometime in the future. -akirun cool

Replied on: February 7, 2026 at 5:03:00 AM

thank youuu, I'll stop by yours too when you're ready bouncey I'm glad you like my site and so!!

glassjungle January 25, 2026 at 4:52:14 AM
Do you have a website?: glassy-website.nekoweb.org

Super awesome to come across another gothic website owner! (gosh i really need to step up my goth game my sites a little too emo haha)

Replied on: January 25, 2026 at 5:17:53 AM

you came by right as i turned the bg off to test i think lol.. you didn't even see that but tysmm! happy to meet another as well. i've seen your site before i think, probably in explore

22 January 24, 2026 at 6:36:25 AM
Do you have a website?: nyun of your business my friend

lil bro if you’re reading this you’re like hardwired to be a goth you would eat so hard, please listen to like… gallowdance or email cobie PLEASE cobie is the gothiest goth and can fix your whole life o(`ω´ )o

Replied on: January 24, 2026 at 6:45:10 AM

I wouldn’t say gallowdance… maybe give like a more horror vacui style band like I said also GET OUT

22 January 21, 2026 at 4:51:41 AM

cobie guestbook is clean sleep (??? Why can I edit other people’s messages? cobie fraud coming soon)

Replied on: January 21, 2026 at 4:52:46 AM

don’t say that like it’s boring…

gatulah January 20, 2026 at 12:13:46 AM

Weird, I wish i could just leave a reply, but whatever. Maybe I'll tell you how I'm using "identity" here, basically a person is a person, identity is something people prescribe to each other like a disease. A person without a prescription can do whatever they like without caring about stupid stereotypes. IT'S JUST STEREOTYPES And being goth is about aesthetic, it shouldn't even be something you are or how you act and hell, it never is, because people act however the situation calls. I just don't enjoy knowing so much about a person just from a few words, because they limit themselves so much. You can do anything, but if you set stereotypes for others, you literally can't. That's why identity is bad, you could do everything, but because people expect people to act a certain way, you can't. Why do people limit themselves like this? I know it can be lonely, but it's lame. Also I literally told you I'm jealous of your ego. I don't see why people ever want to "fit in", it's so lame and makes life so much more bland. I basically do everything to not fit any category, which is why it's sort of hard to talk to me. I don't want to predict people.. but I do, because I find out their "identity" and well, am extremely disappointed mostly. Your actions already follow the sets of rules in our reality, why make it worse? I don't like rules. Setting them intentionally, dumb. To truly love yourself is to give up hope, hope that you can understand why you do the things you do. To understand why you hurt others, to understand why you never feel happy. Having an excuse isn't acceptance, it's denial. We are not perfect creatures, we don't have infinite foresight, we will hurt each other. I don't know if humans are deterministic or probabilistic, but it bothers me that intuition exists and it hurts me. I don't want to know many things that delving deep inside of myself found. And trust me, even if you let go, the world is too sad to be happy now. Only distractions are left. Unconditional happiness is unreachable without delusion. i wanted this to be short, sorry Identity just doesn't fit people, they have to choose things that depend on an identity. Again, identity makes it easier to predict you and I don't like when people are simple, my desire is to learn something new, not see short decision paths in my mind.. for some people it's really short, like people do things only for spreading their dna, what's the point? It's so annoying, I mean by far my favorite stereotype is goth and woman, but it's still just.. it sort of defeats the purpose. Isn't one of the things about goths being alone? I'm sorry, but you aren't and plenty of stuff you do is just so dumb and annoying if you are a hardcore goth or whatever, I haven't thought about goth stereotypes a lot honestly, didn't wanna ruin it for myself. It's just different sets of people, all have good and bad people... Identity is just a way to put people in categories that I despise, it's so backwards. Being a person is so much more beautiful than that. ok thats enough im super eepy sorry i dont like talking like this so much i can sorta tell you'll be upset or attacked, but thats not my intention, its beautiful how people think and im super grateful for this brief convo everyone's opinions are true, because truth is subjective im literally just complaining its sometimes too easy to predict what people do, just like what you said in a blog lol we are as mentally stable as everyone else, except if you hurt yourself, which please don't do that, its never valid to hurt yourself, i only do this because i know i can, i have a very loving family, so i want to someday share that to everyone, i want others to feel accepted for who they are in reality, not dragging them down because of who they are born as and what family they are born in, people can be untethered, but we arent yet, i just want that to change, i want everyone to be creative and free. Not caring about junk, like reproduction or how other people see them. If you don't care about that, then your art is wonderful, it's my favorite type, something pure and instead of an "identity", you are just who you want to be, no words needed. Watch one (hfjone when searching for it) yeah Okay, bye, don't worry about why you act the way you do or how people think of you, it doesn't matter, you matter, your effort matters. Love yourself for what you do and not how you do it. It's hard, but you'll be happy. i hope you understand what i mean now, maybe

Replied on: January 20, 2026 at 2:23:34 AM

If you wanna continue this outside of your one reply to this, you'll have to email me or go to my discord, sorry. I don't want to have long messages or convos in the guestbook (and I'll most likely delete these too). I really don't think you understood me, either, for all the reads you're giving to me. The only thing I said was I turned inward as the world gets colder to me, and I offered that as a way for you. You're labeling and giving yourself an identity by aligning with the idea of disillusionment and nihilism. There's no way to not be a person, so you're better off just being yourself. I'm not saying you were wrong or right, you just came at me and I didn't personally agree. But I did see you, and I acknowledge that you feel that nothing in the world matters, as that's a feeling we can share. Also you're not upsetting, (although I do think you were attacking me, but it is what it is lol) I love talking to people who think differently. All I'll say, though, is that just like you want to say we are forged by our environment (which is the truth), we also have personal truths and values that we can change at any time for no reason. I believe that this world is utter garbage and filth, but there are voices out there who need to be protected from it. I won't throw everything I am away and just give up all hope because there are people silencing others, I would rather keep going until I, myself can't take it. We share a lot of the same views, but I grew to understand that by making myself unhappy, I'm poisoning myself, my potential, and my health by being unhappy and choosing to suffer for no reason. Society means nothing to me, but I'll play their game and use their toys because it makes me a healthier person. At the same time, I also have thoughts about societal collapse and complete unfeeling and other fantasties, but it simply won't be a reality. I missed out on so many things in my life because I thought like you, so of course I'll come in and defend myself and people with my whole heart. Also because I'm not letting this slide, your ideas of goths are so strange, unless you were interacting with THOSE goths or just the stereotype... Goths are and have always been social people who like goth themes and music. We dance at clubs (or just to music alone, I don't like clubs/batcave culture), make hangouts and fashion, and then go home and do normal things. Actually reading, writing, and sort of emulating gothic figures is just fluff or melodrama or cringe things we do. A lot of movie goths are like you described, though, but the secret is a lot of goths are full on nerds who like nerd men and women and people who don't care about regular life so much. You're describing like a literary figure of a goth, and omg I wouldn't wish being an actual irl gothic protag on anyone. Although, I do use a lot of my irl memories and emotions for my Hale, though, so it's.... both not and is hypocritical of me to say something like that lol. What's cool about me being goth, though, is the goth came to me, I didn't come to it. I've only been goth for a year because I love the music and themes. I think you'd like a lot of it too, though, it kind of vibes with you and your messages, you know? (this isn't a slight or anything, I actually think you'd like like some horror vacui? lyric-wise anyway... you don't have to acknowledge this, though, i don't think you like me very much lol)

gatulah January 19, 2026 at 7:53:52 PM
Do you have a website?: https://gatulah.nekoweb.org/

I read your blog. I do relate with a lot of things you said, except the identity part. People are much simpler than you'd think, which is why we don't have an identity, it's just way too complex of a system. Sure you can tell yourself that, and act irrationally based on your "identity", but that's.. nobody actually does that. There are gradients of what people can be and what roles are taken up in different social situations, based on the decisions you'll be making, funnily enough, most people don't know what the best decision is for every situation, so they choose the most obvious thing. Well, when I realized that my life is unique, I desired to make unique decisions. Which is isolating the worst people in my class by becoming friends with them. I learnt that it doesn't matter who you are or what you think, your actions are predestined based on the most common factors. We behave in a simple system, it cannot be broken. Kids don't go into school and kill each other. My "friend" took a butterfly knife with him to school and played with it while teachers walked by not even noticing it, because they couldn't. Their reality would crash, but it still fits things that they could not notice. I realize that I basically described my website, ha.. man I'm sort of an FILTERED for making it the way I did, but whatever. I consider having an identity lazy and uncreative, it's cheating in my book. It's not the life I want to lead, I feel like it's just too selfish to care about myself. Which is sort of what I'm jealous of, having an ego that isn't constantly falling apart, I do mean that it's constant. I want my decisions to break this system, as pathetic as that sounds (it's self-enclosed), because I don't like people who are lazy with themselves. YEAH YEAH "I like x and y, and I'm a." No you are not, eventually you'll drift far away from that, and if you feel like that's not true, you are deluding yourself, hah. Well, it's hard to talk about an artist's intent, because most times they don't know what it was and they come up with it later, or someone else comes up with it and the artist takes that. It's funny, because basically nobody is right. Anyways, be yourself and don't go along with any trends like sexuality or gender, because they will be obsolete when you realize that they mean basically nothing and everyone is just bigots or extremely lost. I know that's offensive, to say, but WE DONT KNOW HOW WE FEEL. Nobody does, because those are literally just words and chemicals, behind it all, there are just the experiences you've had and there isn't an identity behind it. None of your decisions were "free will" because it can be explained by a line of decisions grounded within a simple narrative. We all serve a purpose, we are all just made up of atoms that hit off of each other. There is no meaning other than being vessels of experiences, so don't limit yourself. You are who you are because of the people around you, so not being around anyone is so nice, I hurt fewer people this way. JUST BE WHOEVER YOU WANT, YOU CAN BE EVERYTHING AND LIKE EVERYTHING It doesn't matter. The noise kills freedom, caring about it is meaningless. You can't feel happy the way you want to, the way everyone wants. I just wish people were selfless and insane, the world would be such a better place without people clinging onto structures that offer temporary safety. That's what I see in.. everyone. They need to feel safe and accepted by people who will never care about them. That's how I made my website, everyone feels so distant on nekoweb, mine as well, in it's own way. Away from everyone, hidden within my own decisions. Nobody has called me their friend in real life for 5 years, because at this point, I deserve it. And I'm afraid of losing trust in people again, I can have so many ego deaths before I truly go insane. im not bragging, im calling myself insane, im genuinely jealous for people who care about simple things, but i can't anymore, it seems so pointless and selfish I care to make people feel like they can have a place on earth, a safe place, like the one i dont feel i have again, i agree with all you say, im just worse at having an ego than you

Replied on: January 19, 2026 at 9:30:45 PM

People naturally have identities, whether they want to or not. As much as the past me wanted to believe it, you can't not have a self and be a living person. You can make these unique decisions, but you're acting out an identity by being like this. You both aren't and don't have to be a predetermined person either, as I would say being a goth isn't a 'predetermined' path I chose. I chose to live and think like this because I was so tired of being alone, but also realizing there were so many other people in this subculture/in our literature that expressed the exact same feeling. You're allowed to be selfish when it comes to yourself, if you didn't know. It's included in the definition and the word, and no one else has a right to put themselves above you in your own mind, spirit, and body. However, it also sounds like you are incredibly in your own head about certain things, similar to me... It's not a good place to be, even if *I* sound selfish or hypocritical for saying it. To solve a lot of my own problems, the thing I had to do was stop listening or caring to other people, other things in the world, and stop taking in others' points of view for a while. I'm not saying you need to isolate yourself forever, but you have to hear and understand yourself first, above anyone else. I needed to focus on me, build a self that could support me, and I had to mess up so many times. I feel nothing in the world, and I'm sure I need therapy, but I learned how to make myself feel better and stopped acting hostile towards it. I also had to let go of injustices and cruel mistakes in my past as a kid, which let me become more mature in a respectable way... I'm still very, very immature and I mess up, but I just let myself laugh about it now or I apologize and promise to do better next time. Actually, I think everything just ages and nulls itself with time, but I won't tell you the lie that it gets better. I was stuck with a bunch of friends through school that I didn't even like, then with someone I did like who I probably messed with in some way to make her hate me, and then alone for a while? But in that time, even though it was years until I felt fine again, I had to face myself and my own hostility. Aside from all that, I think it's good that at least someone admits that they relate to me. A lot more people than you think relate to people like this, but of course they won't admit it. Sometimes it's cruel for me to bring it up in public spaces, but when they squirm, I know it's the truth. Maybe I believe in all this, or I just take some strange satisfaction over pretending to be over them that helps me. The only thing I don't really like here is your misguided apathy. I like apathy, it keeps me grounded and safe, but your flavor of it is a little dangerous. People do feel things, people are and have a right to be things and experiment to chase a final state of self, and we evolve as we grow. We never stay the same, and this world would be extremely boring if we did. Like, even the crimes people commit give us something to talk about on the news and in the world, otherwise the world wouldn't suck. People also suck, as a whole amalgamated mass, but individually... they're just stupid people. I'm a stupid person too, probably, but I find value in having a strong sense of self. That's probably how the parasite I used to be died, once I stopped chasing friends and everything and became someone who'd at least be recognized by others. The other half of that is I can just ignore people at will, throw them out, and protect those who actually like me as a person. When you kind of become more like people, they like or can tolerate you better... it's lame, but it quite literally is what the human race is built on, so there you go, people connect with other people. You literally scare people away otherwise, since our brains are wired to pick out the safe from the bad.

carrot January 14, 2026 at 4:14:14 PM
Do you have a website?: babycarrot.nekoweb.org

yoo love the site! just joined the no, i'm not a human mini clique :-)

Replied on: January 14, 2026 at 5:04:46 PM

thank you for joining! im glad you like my site too

Twish January 5, 2026 at 10:22:57 PM
Do you have a website?: https://tvviissh.nekoweb.org/

This website is just so comfortably dark, it's so nice. Your writing and art are also realllly cool, TLDR the vibes are off the charts!!

Replied on: January 5, 2026 at 11:13:13 PM

tysm for visiting, im happy you liked the new layout!! and ty for looking at my work

moosyu January 4, 2026 at 6:40:38 AM
Do you have a website?: yeah, moosyu.github.io

your site is so peak, i fw the aesthetic so heavy as well as your art. pretty please change the link colour though i cant see it for shit lol...

Replied on: January 4, 2026 at 6:45:35 AM

I will change it tomorrow! it’s only temporary, not all the links are gonna be blue (it’s the placeholder that comes from v2 of the site, like on the fandom page rn ^_^) And tysm ^^

sharkyy December 23, 2025 at 12:55:18 AM
Do you have a website?: https://v4mpyrsharky444.nekoweb.org/

very yummy site, love the gothic vibes

Replied on: December 25, 2025 at 12:02:32 AM

TY i like your site tooooooo i love your index page especially and that's why i followed you

hex December 21, 2025 at 9:01:34 AM

I LIKE COBIE YOURE VERY COOL AND AMAZING!!!!!!!!!

Replied on: December 21, 2025 at 9:06:11 AM

YAY TY

NyamcoYukari December 12, 2025 at 7:30:43 AM

You Like Namco Arcade Games?

Replied on: December 12, 2025 at 6:12:27 PM

nope lol

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